In the noise of everything you see and do in your life, those moments that garner the strongest reaction are the ones that are remembered. Fear, rejection, humiliation, glee, joy, devotion, tenderness, devastation, grief. So, to have a life filled with memories, you must always feel genuinely and passionately, and let everything make an impression on you. Avoid walls or defenses. You must always take chances. Accept it all, unshielded. That way, you’ll get the most value for your time.